Morning Musings: October 18

What’s the real problem?  The real problem for me is often that I really don’t want to or am not convinced that I have to, not that this is not the right time, or that the circumstances need to be […]

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Morning Musings: October 17

Since promises are always about the future, a good way to tell if I am bull****ing myself is to ask myself if there is any real reason why I have to plan this for the future, why I can’t do it […]

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Morning Musings: October 16

All promises really mean is not now.  They work so well because I can pretend that I am willing to take responsibility for my actions…just not this red hot minute.  They soothe my conscience.  I don’t have the guilt of […]

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Morning Musings: October 15

If I just buy into a blanket justification, I may miss an opportunity to find the real problem…and solve it. Case in point:  I have a client who came in one week having eaten particulary badly (for her) with the […]

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Morning Musings: October 14

It’s not just bull****.  On the one hand, I may have no intention of following through on some plan and the reason I give myself is purely permission not to.  On the other hand, behind every legitimate excuse may be […]

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