Morning Musings: October 18
What’s the real problem? The real problem for me is often that I really don’t want to or am not convinced that I have to, not that this is not the right time, or that the circumstances need to be […]
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What’s the real problem? The real problem for me is often that I really don’t want to or am not convinced that I have to, not that this is not the right time, or that the circumstances need to be […]
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Since promises are always about the future, a good way to tell if I am bull****ing myself is to ask myself if there is any real reason why I have to plan this for the future, why I can’t do it […]
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All promises really mean is not now. They work so well because I can pretend that I am willing to take responsibility for my actions…just not this red hot minute. They soothe my conscience. I don’t have the guilt of […]
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If I just buy into a blanket justification, I may miss an opportunity to find the real problem…and solve it. Case in point: I have a client who came in one week having eaten particulary badly (for her) with the […]
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It’s not just bull****. On the one hand, I may have no intention of following through on some plan and the reason I give myself is purely permission not to. On the other hand, behind every legitimate excuse may be […]
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