Morning Musings: October 22
A truly valuable and edifying exercise is to make a list of what I say to myself and what the truth actually is. I take a piece of lined paper and make two columns, labeling one list “What I Tell […]
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A truly valuable and edifying exercise is to make a list of what I say to myself and what the truth actually is. I take a piece of lined paper and make two columns, labeling one list “What I Tell […]
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The beauty of rationalizations is that they are always partially true. But they are only “part” of the story – the part I want to hear and buy into. They are never the whole story. It’s that grain of truth […]
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Rationalizations are a technique that appeals to the “thinking person” (I like to tell myself) because they are not a such blatant blow off, but allow me to give myself an intellectually plausible explanation for my behavior. In some ways, […]
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A great way to call my bluff on my promises about future payback is to ask myself to nail down the specifics of the promise. If I find myself resisting commitment to when and how I plan to reconcile my […]
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What’s the real problem? The real problem for me is often that I really don’t want to or am not convinced that I have to, not that this is not the right time, or that the circumstances need to be […]
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