January 5
Emotional Basics – I gotta wanna. Someone else wanting it for me will never hold up when I am really asking myself to stretch for an outcome. Paying someone to motivate me or glomming onto their motivation (like hooking up with someone who exercises regularly) will only work initially, at least that is what I have found. If it is not coming from me, it will eventually wear off. They can’t give me what they earned for themselves by the very doing of it. Their motivation is the result of their stretching. That’s how mine will come too. If I want to get it and keep it, I have to put my time in…it will come as the result of that. When I have stopped “putting in” in most areas of my life, eventually I have stopped “getting out”.