Morning Musings: December 11

We train people’s expectations…people bring you/prepare for you what they think you want.  Ifsomeone on my job is tracking me down to bring me a piece of the birthday cake I so deliberately avoided, then they must think I want […]

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Morning Musings: December 10

What are they thinking?…I don’t want to draw attention to myself.  One of my clients who happens to be a therapist herself, caught herself hesitating to move a bread basket away at a dinner with two couple friends.  She realized […]

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Morning Musings: December 9

What are they thinking?…Using social pressure to your advantage.  I have done a lot of my worst over eating when I was alone.  I didn’t really want to be a lunatic in front of others, and (in theory) the company […]

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Morning Musings: December 8

What are they thinking…I don’t want my kids to stand out.  Being a parent must be even tougher than just managing yourself because now you are worried also about how your child fits in.  The commercials from the manufacturer of […]

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Morning Musings: December 7

What are they thinking?…who wants to be a killjoy?  I am sure I am not the only one who has imbibed when it was absolutely not a good idea for me just because I think that you will think I […]

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